This is often a very unappreciated job. This person, be they male or female, is the personal contact point between you and the rest of the staff at a bar, eatery, or anywhere someone waits on you. They do work hard for the money they earn and more often than not get blamed for anything that meets with your displeasure whether they had anything to do with it or not. They normally treat you like you are special, even when you aren’t. You expect them to get everything perfect about what you have ordered even though they might be waiting on dozens of people. Remember them after you have been served. Remember they are people too and can make mistakes and that this is the way they make their living and contribute to society. Treat them as such.
How to celebrate – Try being a server yourself. Tip well. Be kind to all those who give you service.